Marriage in Convenience
Is that true that marriage will solve the unwanted pregnancies and baby dumping? If young people mature enough to have sex doesn't mean they ready to start a family and suport their offspring. I heard the bising-bising in Malaysian news that one of its state plan to allow girl under 16 and boys under 18 to get married. Some people agree and some other doesn't. And me... my ignorance really amusing.
I m product of old teaching and primitif traditions. No sex before marriage. So I m partially agree if young couple who mature enough to have sex get marriage. So the cases like abortions and baby dumping will never exist. But Marriage is not only about sex. Are they ready to take the responsibilities and consequence of the marriage?
Youngster supposed to enjoy their youth with happy memories and experiences (exclude sexual activity). Young marriage will destroy their chances to doing that. But its okay as long as they are not end up regreting for the decisions they make to mary in such young age.
Everybody have options to choose what path they want to follow. Not everyone lucky to live happily and disaster free. But at least try to do the best as we can... wanna do the right thing or do the thing right? Just choose...all is in our hand...
I m product of old teaching and primitif traditions. No sex before marriage. So I m partially agree if young couple who mature enough to have sex get marriage. So the cases like abortions and baby dumping will never exist. But Marriage is not only about sex. Are they ready to take the responsibilities and consequence of the marriage?
Youngster supposed to enjoy their youth with happy memories and experiences (exclude sexual activity). Young marriage will destroy their chances to doing that. But its okay as long as they are not end up regreting for the decisions they make to mary in such young age.
Everybody have options to choose what path they want to follow. Not everyone lucky to live happily and disaster free. But at least try to do the best as we can... wanna do the right thing or do the thing right? Just choose...all is in our hand...